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Friends and lovers... - Tina Marie's Ramblings
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Friends and lovers...
Some people seem to do well transitioning their friends into lovers and back again. For other people, this operation causes huge amounts of drama.

I'm one of the people who do it easily. I've had friends that became lovers, lovers that became friends, and some people who've done both half a dozen times in the time I've know them.

The difference, I think, is the level of separation you see in the two states. For me, it's a continuum. Everybody in my life is somewhere along this giant line, from "acquaintance" to "primary partner". And, quite frankly, sex really has nothing to do with the placement. It's really more about intimacy - there are people I've never slept with who, when I look in their eyes and hug them, it's more intimate then a multiple-hour romp between the sheets with someone else.

And intimacy, quite frankly, is something I need far more of in my life then sex. If I can get them both together, it's great, but if not, I'll pick the intimacy every time.

Sometimes I'm such a girl.
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From: ex_inviolet697 Date: September 15th, 2004 09:04 am (UTC) (Link)
If I can get them both together, it's great, but if not, I'll pick the intimacy every time.

Wow, you and me both. Hello out there, are there any chests available for me to sleep with my head on? Male, female, whatever, just bring whatever you've got. :)

Sometimes I'm such a girl.

Yes, and in a good way, too.
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